Are You a Product?

Are we really a product of our parents? The choices we make, the dreams we choose, the personality we develop. Hey, readers before digging into the blog, I would like to request you to click the follow button, it keeps me motivated. Thanks

What does the product mean?

One day you are meant to become this magnificent being capable of choosing a career, jobs, relationship, friends on your own determination. The better the choices, the better the product you'll be. 

So, from where do these choices come from?

Let's look into you from the day you were born.

•You were not born ready

•You were emotional in nature 

•You did not know how to learn in the beginning; you knew how to absorb things from the surroundings

•You has to learn how to learn 

•You came a long way now, who could make choices that suits the best interests, had developed liking and disliking, and this list might never stop.

Why did I call you a product?

Basically, the product that manufactured in some factory has a specific objective to achieve, likewise you my readers, have made into someone who has had something to achieve. There's a debatable theory about nature VS nurture(which I would discuss in another blog) in brief, is about raising the child vs inborn genes of the child.

In Indian set up of parenting; our parents, generally, put their unfulfilled ambitions on their child. Establishing that goal for a child to achieve. It may not be applied to you but for those who might have experienced this may feel a connection 

Your emotional response to different experiences create an interpretation of those experience which you assumes to be true and this varies person to person. So, the emotional experience becomes one of the first teachers for you.

Because you may have learned through absorption, the parents and surrounding becomes the other teacher, instead of teaching how to think, parents and surrounding teach what to think 

 

When you learned what to think you become a product. And it becomes confusing, stops the process of learning and curiosity, and it becomes difficult to deal with this world. 

"What" to think; lead you to a particular orientation.

Exposures, experiences turn low and hopes become high and you unknowingly prepare to meet the dungeons of life.

What to do?

To break this established shackles of limited mind the only thing you could do to elevate your life is to ask questions, be curious and allow changes.

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